Friday Post 24

By Shofi Ahmed

We are aware that our time on earth is fleeting, like a boat briefly docking on an alluring shore. Nothing remains here permanently. Taking a pause on this remarkable journey through the mundane world is only temporary, like stopping a car on a captivating highway. We understand the transient nature of our existence.

However, when a loved one of us leaves from this mortal landscape, we grieve. We shed tears. Yet, it is not a wrong thing to do, for even our beloved Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) experienced sorrow when his son Ibrahim (RA) passed away in infancy. He acknowledged that it is a natural response, not a complaint.

I sought to mourn the loss of a dear cousin of mine likewise. We shared a profound bond, having embarked on the Hajj pilgrimage together and cherished numerous precious memories. The essence of those moments continues to resurface. I leave it to you to discern whether I maintained a state of equilibrium amidst these emotions.

In the serene rose gardens, the joy of meeting someone next to the blooming flowers is indescribable. It brings immense joy, as the company of flowers is always delightful. And how profoundly blissful it would be to have a companion strolling towards the gardens of Allah SWT during Hajj. Together, we fervently chanted “Labbayek Allahumma Labbayek,” expressing our devoted presence before Allah SWT. On the polished path, as the golden dawn broke over the towering minarets of the Ka’bah in Makkah, resounding with the call to Fajr prayer, we were surrounded by a multitude of angels descending with bags full of abundant blessings from the heavens.

Such was my experience with my cousin, Bahar Uddin Aftar and sister-in-law, his wife Lila Begum, as we embarked on the Hajj pilgrimage as brothers. We encountered divine moments and wove countless sacred memories that will be cherished in our hearts for years to come. These are enduring connections that never fade away; they are tightly woven and everlasting.

On 6th Dhu Al-Qa’dah 1444 Hijri, Friday, May 26 2003, my dear cousin took the ultimate leap, daringly departing from the earthly realm. Soaring high, he sought the boundless mercy of the Most Generous, as he met the final hour. Now, he stands at the grand gate of paradise, leaving behind the dust of the earth, yearning for eternal bliss.

May Allah SWT grant him entry into up high in Jannatul Firdawoos and shower him with His infinite mercy.